"FEMINISM? MENINISM? ,NAH, NEUTRALISM!!"

(NOTE FOR READERS: THIS IS NOT AN ANTI-FEMINIST Or ANTI-MENINIST BLOG, THE PURPOSE OF THIS WRITEUP IS TO AWARE YOU ALL OF THE MISUNDERSTANDING AND THE SMEAR CREATED AROUND THE WORLD REGARDING THIS ISSUE.  HOPE YOU’LL LIKE IT. SPREAD  LOVE)

 

                                 "GENDER EQUALITY FOR 1001th TIME(END OF CHIVALRY)"

                                                            (By ANISHK YADAV, ENGINEERING STUDENT)

 

Let’s Begin This Top Talk For One More Time And Let’s Just Start With The Basic Or Conceptual Meaning Of Gender Equality.

Gender equality, also known as sexual equality or equality of the sexes, is the state of equal ease of access to resources and opportunities regardless of gender, including economic participation and decision-making; and the state of valuing different behaviours, aspirations and needs equally, regardless of gender.

So That Is What Gender Equality Generally Referred To As. But I Guess Many People Might Have Just  Got A Different Definition Or Explanation Of This Term. They Think Of This As A Particular Gender Having Some Kind Of Power Over The Other.

Well, By “Many People”  I Meant The “Male-Bashing Feminists” or “Female-Bashing Meninists”.

Now, I Want You Guys To Read This Part Very Carefully Because I Am Not Saying That Feminism/Meninism Is Wrong, Eventually I Support These Movements Too. But The Real Meaning Of Feminism/Meninism Is Equality For All Gender, And Not To Degrade Or Target Any One Particular Gender.

Feminism, Its Loudest Proponents Vow, Is About Fighting For Equality. The Man-Hating Label Is Either A Smear Or A Misunderstanding. Yet A Lot Of Feminist Rhetoric Today Does Cross The Line From Attacks On Sexism Into Attacks On Men, With A Strong Focus On Personal Behaviour : The Way They Talk, The Way They Approach Relationships, Even The Way They Sit On Public Transit. Male Faults Are Stated As Sweeping Condemnations; Objecting To Such Generalizations Is Taken As A Sign Of Complicity. Meanwhile, Similar Indictments Of Women Would Be Considered Grossly Misogynistic.

Well, Whatever The Reasons For The Current Cycle Of Misandry — Yes, That’s A Word, Derided But Also Adopted For Ironic Use By Many Feminists — Its Existence Is Quite Real. Consider, For Example, The Number Of Neologism That Use “Man” As A Derogatory Prefix And That Have Entered Everyday Media Language: “Mansplaining,” “Manspreading” And “Manterrupting.” Are These Primarily Male Behaviours That Justify The Gender-Specific Terms? Not Necessarily: The Study That Is Cited As Evidence Of Excessive Male Interruption Of Women Found That The Most Frequent Interrupting Is Female-On-Female.("Femterrupting?")

But, We’re Not Here To Discuss How One Group Of People Targets The Other. We’re Here To Resolve This Issue And We’ll Do It In Some Different Way And With A Classical Aspect.

In The End What We All Want Is Equality Among Us And Equality For Us…..So Let’s Begin:

 

  

Men Are Trash?? Women Are Toys??

 

 

Thank You All For Paying That Supreme Attention,

Now, You'll Be Really Boiling Up In Rage After Seeing Those Two Comments.

But You Have Been Played And That’s Where The Problem Is!!

I Don't Care Or You Don't Care Whether It's The Name Of The Movement,

As There Is Already A Movement For Women/Men , What You May Call As Feminism/Meninism Which Has Been Here Since History Which I Fully Support And Respect. They Fights For Equality Focusing On Women/Men Alike.

These Movements Were Never About Targeting A Gender Or Should I Say Targeting Opposite Gender, As This Only Rise Up Hate And Is Not Helping With What True Feminists/Meninists Have Been Raising Their Voice For And Moreover It is Degrading It.

So Basically, Whosoever Calls Out Any Person For Any Of The Above Two Comments Are Calling Out Themselves As Well For Their Respective Phrase.

We Both Women/Men Have To Wake Up And Not Let Anyone Take An Unfair Advantage Or Disadvantage As Well On The Basis Of Gender.

Regardless Of Your Gender You Should Not Be Above The Other And Just Equal.

There Are Millions Of Ways To Support The Concept Of Feminism/Meninism And Equality Without Spreading Hate.

If You Think Men/Women Are Equal In Every Way, Then They Both Should Be Given Same Capital Punishment As Well.

Equal Rights And Equal Responsibilities, That's When True NEUTRALISM or GENDER EQUALITY Will Hold A Place In This World.

Actually We Don't Need Meninism/Feminism Because We're Not Delusional or Hypocritical Gender-Hater.

In The Long Run Our Original Formula Is Women + Men To Solve The Issue. Look At It From This Perspective, What If All Men Disappeared, Some Portion Of Women Would Be Happy On The Idea But Guess What's Going To Happen.. Or Vice Versa, What If All Women Disappeared.

So In The End We Do Need Each Other Whether You Like It Or Not, There Is No Other Way Around.

We Have To Develop A Society Where Men Respects Women And Women Respects Men. And This Can Only Be Done By “YOU”.

 

MEN ARE SUPERIOR!>?

 

No, They're Not. I Am Glad You've Decided To Read This(In Oppose Of It Or In Support Of It) After Reading The Title Because I Am About To Talk Some Sense In Limelight Of This Phrase.

Firstly, People Say Men Have An Advantage When It Comes To Physical Attributes And I Guess That's More Of An Inherent Difference When Compared To Women.

But This Does Not Grant Them Any Right To Overpower A Women or A Men In Any Situation Be It Physical Or Verbal.

But We Also Need To Understand Because Of Our Physical Capabilities, Why A Woman Would be Afraid In Certain Situations.

Like Walking Out Alone In A Night, Now This Might Sound Strange Or Well Known Fact, But Most Of The Female Are Still Afraid To Go Out Alone For A Walk Or Returning Back To Home In The Nights Because Of The Fear Of Kidnapping, Murdering, Abusing , Rapes And Other Difficulties As Well.

However It Doesn't Mean That Men Are Always Stronger, Well Tell That To A Female UFC Fighter, Would Kick The Strongness Out Of You.

Or People Who Say Women Are Always Hyper Emotional, Then Think Of A Bleeding-Heart Guy Who Is Like The Biggest And Most Passionate Person.

So I Think Generalization Is Always Problematic.

By Keeping These Things In Mind We Can Say That We Need More Equality Around Since We Also Can't Deny The Fact That It Is More Dangerous Out There.

Now, This Is Not Just The Only Problem Faced By Women, Don't Go Straight Away Pointing A Gun At Me, Cuz This Is Just The Gist Of The Example. And Men Also Have Their Own Share Of Problems As Well.

Like, In The 19^th Or 20^th Century, When Women Were Forced To Stay In Home And Men Were Allowed To Work. You Can Call-Up That Sentence In A Different Aspect As Well, i.e., Women Were Allowed To Stay In Home And Men Were Forced To Go To Work.(Sounds Very Meninists, Right?). But, The Thing Is An Average Men Never  Had A Say In This And No Women Would Have Married A Men Who Is Unwilling To Work.

During The War Times, They Felt Completely Devastated, They Suffered From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, They Should Never Show Emotions At Any Cost Or If Possible Never Feel Any Kind Of Emotion. But Still They Hid Their Pain And Emotions Inside Them Because Crying Out There Or Breaking Down On Their Work Would Label Them “UNMANLY” During Those Days.

We Need To Acknowledge That Men Are Being Oppressed When It Comes To Talking Or Showing Their Emotions, Not Only By Women But Also By Men Alike. Now, Some Of You May Say That Not Everyone Is Same, Well Exactly That’s The Case, But That Small Amount Of People Are Not Enough To Eliminate The Issue. The Issue Is Still There.

We Have To Understand That Every Gender Have Their Own Problems. This Does Not Mean One Gender Has Superior Problems Or Not. We Must Support The Issues When They Are Present Regardless Of The Gender.

Don’t Go Ahead And Start Comparing The Problems Faced By Men And Women Because THIS IS NOT A COMPETITION!!!!

So Rather Than Pointing Out Each Other, I Guess We Should Stand For Each Other In The Hard Times. That's The Most SUPERIOR Power In The World.

 

If We Generalize The Problems Faced By Both Men And Women In Today’s Society It’ll Look Something Like This:

MEN	WOMEN
1.)Unrealistic And Stereotypical Portrayals Of Men In The Media And The Culture. 2.)Combatting Racism, Sexism, Homophobia And The Man-Box. 3.)Men Are Often Referred To As Seeking An Intimacy In Relationships Of Every Kind. 4.)The Disposability Of Men & Boys. 5.)Money And The Pressure To Be A Financial Success.	1.)Female Infanticide And Sex-Selective Abortion. 2.)Victim Of Rapes, Domestic Violence, Acid Attacks, Dowry, etc. 3.)Restricted To Get Access To Education. 4.)Less Employment Opportunities When Compared To Men & Workforce Participation. 5.)Bound In Restrictions In A Stereotypical Way, By Saying Only Men Can Do That.

 

So If You Look Into These Problems, They Are Just The Overview There Are Thousands Of Problems Faced By Each.

But If You Wanna Break The Stereotypes You Should Break The Double Standards As Well:

1.)    If A Men Hits A Women, He Is Brutal, Evil Or Pervert Whereas If Women Hit A Men, She Is Brave. This Should Be Changed. Violence Of Any Kind By Any Gender Should Be Unacceptable.

2.)    If A Women Mobs The Floor, Wash The Dishes, Cooks Food, Take care Of The Children And Her Home We Are Fine, But If A Men Do All These Works, He Is Labelled As “UNMANLY”.

3.)    If A Women Asks For The Bill Split She Is Independent, And When A Men Asks For A Bill Split He Is Cheap?? (DOUBLE STANDARDS!!)

      We Have Lots Of Other Example, But I Just Wanna Give A Gist Of Everything To You Guys. Now It Lies Within Our Boundaries To Break These Stereotypes And Make A Hassle Free And Equal Society.

 

  On The Ending Note I Just Want You To Look Below And Just Feel That Both Men And Women Are Equal From The Beginning, It Was Us Who Were Differentiating Between Them Always:

MEN

WOMEN

He Is A Man He Is A Friend He Is A Brother He Is A Father He Is A Boyfriend He Is A Husband He Does Everything For Your Happiness. Respect HIM *Because Not All Men Are Sexual-Predators. You Can Have Lots Of Male Friends. You Can Hug Them When You Feel Happy. You Can Cry On Their Shoulder When You Feel Sad, You Can Stay Over Their Place When You Feel Low. They’ll Always Protect Your Dignity Like A Family.

She Is A Woman She Is A Friend She Is A Sister She Is A Mother She Is A Girlfriend She Is A Wife She Does Everything For Your Happiness. Respect HER *Because Not All Women Wants Your Money. You Can Have Lots Of Female Friends. You Can Share Your Happiness With Them. You Can Cry Out Loud With Them They’ll Never Judge You. You Can Share Your Little Secrets With Them. They’ll Always Choose What’s Best For You Just Like Your Own Family .

 

 

 

 

“It is time that we all see gender as a spectrum instead of two sets of opposing ideals.”